The Ten Habits of Passionate Customer Care

You get the marriage you want by showing your partner how much you really want them.  You can recapture the joy in your marriage by learning how to apply these Ten Habits of Passionate Customer Care

1. Assessment

How much do you really know about each other's true needs? Developing your ASSESSMENT Habit helps you identify what your true love needs to feel they are being cared for. Using our STOP-START-CONTINUE assessment technique you'll  discover each other's hidden needs, temper your emotions and eliminate unwanted surprises. 

2. Preparation

Are you prepared to care for your partner with the same effort you are being cared for​? The PREPARATION Habit helps you anticipate and overcome the minor discomforts and annoyances that make you angry. It mentally prepares you to recognize your partner's needs and spot the many opportunities you aren't aware of to demonstrate care.

3. Respect

Do you really respect each other? The RESPECT Habit helps you value one another's interests, ideas, and types of intelligence and understand one another's fears, viewpoints and motives. You draw on this habit to support your partner's desires, worries and judgments. When you respect and nurture these qualities in yourself, you demonstrate your love and appreciation for your partner as they are, not as you wish they were.

4. Reciprocation

Do you know how to give back, to return the good care you receive? The RECIPROCATION Habit helps you appreciate what your partner does for you. Reciprocation is not about keeping score, it's about caring in return. When your partner helps you, developing this habit makes giving back easier and maintains equity in your relationship. 

5. Engagement

How much of your time do you give your partner? The ENGAGEMENT Habit helps you connect with each other, not letting the demands of job and family pull you apart. This habit keeps love fresh and exciting. Each time you engage each other with loving words, by touch and with physical gifts, you prove that you like being together.

6. Expectation

Do you give the minimal amount of energy to your marriage, or do you exceed your partner's expectations? The EXPECTATION Habit gives you the discipline and desire to do more than your partner expects of you. It reminds you to surprise and delight your partner by giving more to them than you ask for yourself.

7. Fairness

Do you play fair with your partner or take advantage of them? Are you doing your part, carrying your load? The FAIRNESS Habit keeps you aware of your role as a member of team marriage and motivates you to be a team player. It stops you from cheating on your vows and taking advantage of your partner’s vulnerabilities. 

8. Trust

How trusting are you, and how trustworthy? The TRUST Habit helps you believe your partner’s motives and actions are true and honest. It provides the strength to believe in the partnership. It also motivates you to build trust by living up to your promises.

9. Romance

Are you romantic? Do you wish for more romance in your marriage? The ROMANCE Habit helps you be more loving with your partner and makes them feel confident your love is real and lasting. It helps you discover how to be romantic in ways you haven't considered. It stimulates and inspires you to fulfill each other’s needs for love and affection.

10. Personal Care

How well do you take care of yourself? Do you know how to care for your own needs so you have the energy to care for others? The PERSONAL CARE Habit motivates you to maintain a healthy mind and body. This habit shows you how to build self-esteem and strengthen your mental and physical powers so you can meet the challenges of everyday life.

The Ten Habit Evaluation Sheets

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