Five Star Love is loaded with real life stories and practical examples of customer care in marriage. Master its Ten Powers of Passionate Care and you'll fall in love all over again.
Love is not a mystery. You get the marriage you want by showing your partner how much you care about them. You can stay in love by developing and using these Ten Powers of Passionate Care
Your Ten Powers of Passionate Care are:
How much do you really know about your each other's true needs? The power of ASSESSMENT helps you identify what your true love needs and how to understand the way they think. This fosters empathy to counter anger and tempers your emotions to open a path to acceptance.
Are you prepared to care with the same effort you want to be cared for? The power of PREPARATION makes you ready to overcome the discomforts and annoyances that make you angry with one another. It helps you serve each other's needs and recognize the many opportunities you have to demonstrate care.
Do you really respect each other? The power of RESPECT shows you how to value one another's interests, ideas, and intelligence, and understand their fears, viewpoints and motives. You draw on this power to support their desires, worries and judgments. When you respect and nurture these qualities in yourself, you demonstrate your love and appreciation for your partner as they are, not as you wish they were.
Do you know how to give back, to return the good care you receive? The power of RECIPROCATION is the capacity to appreciate what your partner does for you and to show you appreciate it. Reciprocation is not about keeping score, it's about caring in return. When your partner does something for you, draw on this power to give back and maintain equity in your relationship.
How much of your time do you give your partner? The power of ENGAGEMENT is what you use to truly connect with each other, not letting the demands of job and family pull you apart. This power keeps love fresh and exciting. Each time you engage each other with loving words, by touch and with physical gifts, you prove that you like being together.
Do you give the minimal amount of energy to your marriage, or do you exceed your partner's expectations? The power of EXPECTATIONS provides you the strength and desire to do more than your partner expects of you. It gives you the ability to surprise and delight your partner by giving more to them than you ask for yourself.
Do you play fair with your partner or take advantage of them? Are you doing your part, carrying your load? The power of FAIRNESS makes you aware of your role as a member of team marriage and motivates you to be a team player. It keeps you from cheating on your vows and taking advantage of your partner’s vulnerabilities.
How trusting are you, and how trustworthy? The power of TRUST helps you believe your partner’s motives and actions are true and honest. It provides you with the strength to believe in them and in the partnership. It also motivates you to build trust through your own actions by living up to your promises.
Are you romantic? Do you wish for more romance in your marriage? The power of ROMANCE shows you what romance is for a man and for a woman. This power makes your partner feel certain that your love is real and lasting. It shows how to be romantic in ways you have never considered. It stimulates and inspires you to fulfill each other’s needs for love and affection.
10. Personal Care
How well do you take care of yourself? Do you know how to care for your own needs so you have the energy to care for others? The power of PERSONAL CARE motivates you to do what you need to keep your mind and body healthy. This power shows you how to build self-esteem and strengthen your mental and physical powers so you can meet the challenges of everyday life.